Older People Love to Feel Useful by Helping Their Friends and Neighbors

When Sally scheduled an appointment for a viewing oftook on extra students thus using up so much more of
the house on Colonial Lane she had no idea she washer time and energy.
going to fall in love with it immediately. Although theSally soldiered on for a few months but something had
home was built in 1926 it had been completelyto give because she was growing so tired and
maintained and still conveyed much of its original charmdissatisfied that she considered cutting back on her
and character. To her immense delight, the home wasteaching. She mentioned it to her neighbor, Lydia, a 66
built with a large sunroom that ran the entire length ofyear old widow who lived directly across the street.
the house on the east side and was the perfect placeSoon they had worked out a plan for Lydia to assist
to set up her studio. Sally had been teaching piano toher on a regular basis with the children. They agreed
gifted students for several years but was lackingthat Lydia would come to the house Monday through
space in her current home because her living roomFriday after school where she would have oversight
was the only place large enough for her baby grand.over the two girls as they worked on their homework.
She had always dreamed of a larger space to have aShe also offered to cook the family meal for them so
true studio and this was going to be ideal. She decidedSally would have a home-cooked dinner each night for
she would purchase another instrument that includedher family. The benefits of this household assistance
an artist piano bench that perfectly suited her needs.were obvious at once to Sally and immediately felt
At the same specialty shop, she also located a duetmore in control but there were advantages to Lydia as
piano bench and decided to purchase it for herwell. These advantages included:
Steinway baby grand because it would greatly aid her• Added income - Being a widow with limited income
while she was accompanying her students.had caused Lydia to consider selling her home to cut
In a very short time Sally had picked up several moreback on expenses. The added money she made each
students due to her new location in a beautiful littleweek greatly helped her meet her financial goals.
suburb north of Cincinnati. She loved the challenge of• Sense of family - Lydia had only one son whom
teaching and truly enjoyed her students but she wasshe rarely saw and Sally, her husband and two girls
discovering that she was falling behind in every aspectbecame a second family to her in no time.
of keeping house for her husband and two young• Feeling needed - Being around a young family
daughters. It had seemed much easier to clean, runagain gave her a true sense of worth that she had not
errands, and cook nice meals before she moved andfelt for a long time.